Our obsession with things foreign

by Amrit Hallan on March 17, 2007

Alka recently got a VCD of old Rajesh Khanna songs and yesterday I was quickly browsing through them on my laptop when I came across a song from the film Sachcha Jhootha (the true one and the liar — or something like that). The song begins with:

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which means

Don’t go by how people look
but look into their hearts
because looks are often deceptive.It’s the heart that is true
not the face

While listening to the song I could genuinely relate to the last portion:

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The bindu missing over Dhang is not a typo, I couldn’t make my Hindi typing software type it. Anyway, this translates to:

We have physically been emancipated,
but mentally we’re still the slaves
We still bow to the foreign manners and dressing
We forget our ways and happily adopt foreign ways
and we’ve lost the old tradition of love and nearness

This is exactly what one sees around. People are crazy about things/people from abroad. Of course a big reason is in our country quality production lacks at all level and corruption and distrust is all-pervading, but still, there is some behavioral problem with us, whether it is voluntary or orchestrated. Alka, who has been a student of history often blames it on Thomas Macaulay who once said:

We must do our best to form a class who may be interpreters between us and the millions whom we govern, a class of persons Indian in blood and colour, but English in taste, in opinions, words and intellect.

Well, he pretty much succeeded in that. Macaulay envisaged an upbringing that would make the Indians the mental slaves of the British for ever. The British packed their bags and left but they left the psychological leashes behind and eventually we became a dog nation that could be taken for a walk by any western country. OK, a bit dramatic but you get the point.

There is an anecdote once my teacher narrated and this happened when the infrastructure in Delhi was being revved up for the Asian Games. An architect was called from the USA and with great anticipation everybody was waiting for his arrival. But alas! He turned out to be an Indian. He got such a lackluster response from the Indian officials that outraged, he went back and sent his junior here, who was, to the great delight of Indian officials, a Caucasian. It goes without saying he was received famously.

Personally I don’t resist change and I prefer the western society to our own vastly hypocritical and defeatist society. But there is a limit to copying the others. Individuality and personal taste no longer matter. People don’t do things they like, they do things that are considered hep. This not only stifles free thought and creativity, it also proves fatal for those who cannot cope with the pressure of following the herd.

  • http://www.teerathyatra.com jaggu

    yes. its very embarrassing. till sometime back, my baby (she’s 4) talked purely in hindi and somewhat in bengali and punjabi (the nanny is a bengali and i am a punjabi). i got three warnings from her school saying that she doesn’t understand what the teacher tells her as the teachers speak only in english. initially i told them that it was their job to teach kids a foreign tongue .. but eventually i did start speaking with her in english at home, and now she is pretty comfortable with it. but now whenever a westerner comes to my home, i literally go red in the face when my baby talks only in english and obviously people (the “westerners”) wonder why the kids don’t speak the mother tongue at home. but now i have kinda started showing pride .. afterall she is familiar with at least 4 languages. :) .. but i still wish people’d (again, mostly the “hep” middle class) be more proud of speaking in hindi in public .. which currently they’re not. i have kind of established a balance myself of speaking with my child both in english and in hindi, and rarely in punjabi…

  • http://dearestfriend.wordpress.com Zeya

    Thats quite a good post. But I would say it requires sense of self-discipline to do what you prefer most. So in my own case. I always speak to my husband in Hindi, even outside our home wether in grocery market or in Movie theatre. So I would say I have seen indians “More indian” here in US, than back in Delhi.

    And I think every upward trend has lifecycle of exuberent growth, lots of side-effect than finally settling to its steady-state. Although its totatly Scientific explanation for any signalling trend. But I think science is dervied from real -life only.
    So any mad trend , eventually settles to its steady state, in its due course. We often get impatient before it does so.
    In societal changes a decade is minimum time you should give for anything of measurable quantum.

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